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karishma
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Love can inspire us in everything we do but it can also give negative effect towards our emotions. Having a relationship can give us lesson, heartaches or happiness. Given that fact, can you share how you feel with your current relationship? Are you happy? |
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karen.m.shelton.9
Advanced Member US Joined: May 2, 2014 Post Count: 120 Status: Offline |
Interesting question. After a too-early marriage before I was 19 which ended badly, a long term live-in boyfriend who had wandering eyes and a terrible temper, I found a wonderful man who I was married very happily to for more than 20+ years. He was my true love. He died very suddenly some years ago of a heart attack at a relatively young age. Four years after his death I found another male partner and we have been together ever since. I am happy, although I have to work hard not to compare my current partner to my late husband because then I would probably not be as happy. I think bottom line, happiness is a state of mind and ultimately you have to find what works for you. Certainly it was not wise for me to stay with my first unhappy marriage. I was too young and did not understand what a good relationship takes in terms of commitments. By the 2nd relationship I knew, but my partner had wandering eyes. By the 3rd relationship I was ready to make a commitment and really work at being happy. It was a great success. Like everything else in life, love and relationships are a learning process and require work and commitment. I have no regrets. I would love to hear what you all have to share on the topic. |
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